Reason #458 why boys are different to raise than girls:

Me: Do you want this laundry bag of Lindsey’s? We bought it for her when she went to college.

Grant: Why do I need a laundry bag?

Me: To carry your clothes back and forth when you do laundry at school.

Grant: I figured I’d just use a trash bag or something.

This week I finally got Grant to go shopping for some college supplies.

Shopping with a 19 year old boy isn’t too different than shopping with a toddler.

It involved trying on hats.


And using the blood pressure machine at Walmart.


Keeping him focused was an issue. (I promise you guys he is college material.)

This is our family’s second go-round on shopping for college and I would sum up what I’ve learned this way:

1. Err on the side of less. Let them live at school for a while and figure out what they need.

2. Bed, Bath & Beyond coupons. Save them all (they accept expired coupons) and let the cashier help you figure out the best ones to use.

That’s really all I’ve got.

And if your kids are younger than college aged?

I love the idea of avoiding the crowds by shopping online. Here’s a post I wrote last year about how to do that, get free shipping, and even a little cash back.

Hope you enjoy this first weekend of August.

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Last summer I decided that it was time we had a proper emergency fund.

We had a garden variety savings account, but that’s not really the same thing.

We had other assets we could have tapped if we needed to – retirement savings, college savings, credit card lines of credit, life insurance cash value. Again, none of them the same thing.

So I took a small savings account we had with about $2200 in it, called it an emergency fund, and started adding to it.

Over the next year I made some healthy deposits to our emergency fund in the form of a tax refund and some insurance reimbursements.

I added some more modest deposits from credit card cash back checks and Craigslist furniture sales.

And I threw in some downright unimpressive deposits, like the $24 rebate on our dog’s Heartguard medicine.

Together, those amounts grew our emergency fund from $2232 to $11,871.

I’m kind of in love with our emergency fund. I’m still adding to the total (most experts recommend you have anywhere from 3-8 months of living expenses set aside exclusively for emergencies) but I love looking at the progress we’ve made.

If I were talking to myself from a year ago, here is what I would have said to do:

Open a separate savings account and call it an emergency fund.

Emergency money needs to be readily accessible but not too accessible. You don’t want it tied up in CDs or retirement accounts that would be hard to get to or would cost you a penalty to access. But neither do you want it combined with your everyday money – like your checking account – where it could be easily spent on very non-emergency things.

One of our online savings accounts at Capital One 360 works perfectly for our emergency fund. And since Capital One 360 lets you name your savings accounts (you can see how that looks here), calling this account an Emergency Fund reminds me what this money is for.

That’s a little thing, and it’s purely psychological, but it works.

We have another savings account that is attached to our checking account and, in looking at that account register, I see withdrawals for things like my son’s senior trip, patio construction, IRA contributions, and a furniture purchase.

That’s okay; that’s what savings accounts are for. But it’s really easy to pull money out of that account. Having a separate account that lives at another bank and is called an emergency fund says that that money is OFF LIMITS.

Make frequent deposits.

I make several deposits a month into our emergency fund and I make them as soon as any extra money become available. Doing this keeps the emergency fund in the front of my mind and reminds me that increasing it is a goal.

No deposit is too small.

It’s tempting to ignore small amounts (it’s only $25), but when I added up the deposits of $100 or less I made to our emergency fund over the last year (there were 16 of them), they came to over $1000. That’s money worth paying attention to.

So that’s what’s brought us this far. Here’s what’s on my emergency fund to-do list:


I have yet to automate our emergency savings, but I have done it with our college fund so I’ve seen how effective it can be. One way to automate your emergency fund is to have a portion of your paycheck direct deposited there. Another is to schedule a recurring transfer from your checking account to your emergency fund each week or month (tying it to your payday works well).

The recurring transfer is something that could work well for us, but first I want to have a few months of paying for my son’s college expenses under our belt.

Decide on a savings goal.

I don’t have a specific dollar amount in mind for our emergency fund. Right now I just know that I’m happy we have one and it needs to be bigger than it is.

How much bigger is something I need to spend some time figuring out. That sounds like a good idea for a future blog post.

How do you manage and feed your emergency fund?

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